The Importance of Attunement in Building True Connections  

Mothering is an act of love and care that extends beyond the boundaries of giving birth. It is a relationship built on attunement and understanding between the caregiver and the receiver. Attunement is the ability to tune into the needs and emotions of others, to respond with empathy and compassion, and to create a safe and secure space for them. When we look at nature, we can see the natural attunement between mother animals and their babies. Mother animals are attuned to their offspring's needs from birth, providing them warmth, nourishment, and protection. They respond to their babies' cries and movements, knowing what they need to feel safe and secure. This natural attunement is a reminder that we, too, are part of nature and that we have the innate ability to tune into the needs of others. 

“Attunement is not just a human skill but a universal one.”

It is a reminder that attunement is not just a human skill but a universal one we can learn from the natural world. Attunement is the ability to tune into the needs and emotions of others, to respond with empathy and compassion, and to create a safe and secure space for them. As an animal communicator and end-of-life grief specialist, I have seen how attunement is crucial in building genuine connections with both humans and animals. It is essential in creating a bond that goes beyond words and actions, a connection that touches the heart and soul. Attunement becomes even more important in our pets' aging and senior years. It is a time when our pets need us the most, and we need to be there for them. Attunement allows us to understand their needs, provide comfort and support, and strengthen the bond between us. Attunement becomes even more pronounced as our pets approach the end-of-life journey. It is a time when we need to be fully present, hold space for them, listen to their needs and desires, and honour their transition with love and compassion.

Attunement is not just necessary in the context of mothering or caregiving. It is a vital skill in building meaningful connections with a felt sense of safety with all living beings, human or animal, throughout their lives. It is about being present, listening, and responding with empathy and compassion. Attunement is a potent antidote in a world where we are becoming more disconnected from each other and the natural world. It allows us to bridge the gap and create connections rooted in love, trust and understanding.

It reminds us that we are all interconnected and that our actions and words have the power to create a calming and positive change. In honour of Mother's Day, mothering is about attunement, about building genuine connections of a deep sacred safety that transcends words and actions. It reminds us that love and compassion are the foundation of all meaningful relationships, human and animal. Ultimately, it is about honouring the bond we have created with love and compassion as we walk our paths with our beloved pets.

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Hana Mäkinen

Professional Animal Communicator & Grief Specialist

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